The attachment
(Andrew Mathews)
When you become too attached to things, one person, the money ...you've already it screwed up!.
The challenge of life is to appreciate everything and not locked into anything.
When pursuing things too much, they make off running.
This is the same with animals than with love .....
And even money!
Like when you meet someone at a party who simpatize with you, and who promise you:
- I'll call you next week.
You stay by the phone all week ....¡ not even leave to go to the bathroom!
You sit beside the phone .... and everyone calls you ,but not the person you more expect.
Have you ever seen the desperate need to sell something, a car, a home?
Nobody it wanted! Because of the urgency, you came down the price, and what happened?
It happened that nobody it wanted, neither !
What we deduce from that principle?
One who is in despair, nor a "good morning"
Talk to any seller, it does not matter if you sell private planes to millionaire or sell household detergents.
When you're desperate, you go into a downward spiral
and when others see you in a hurry, they less will buy you!
What happens when you only have half an hour to eat at the restaurant?
They forget your order.
When interest or emotional attachment to a transaction or an event, reached the desperation, we put hindrances to them,
but this principle has a positive reverse: take it calmly and ....¡ bingo!
You spend a year and a half without a boyfriend,or a girlfriend ,
and you are in despair. Then you leave and you say at youself
- If I have no partner, I can very well be happy alone.
You will see then, like it will go to you like flies to the honeycomb of rich honey.
Another classic example is the discussions.
What happens when you insist that someone change their mind? Reaffirmed in theirs reasons more than before!
Stop insisting, and you will see often come alone on your side.
Whenever we are desperate for something-someone to call us, our partner to leave the snuff, that our leaders give us a promotion or they recognize our merits -we create an energy field that repels the desired event.
But do not forget that serenity is not lack of interest, it is possible to adopt a detached attitude and still be firmly determined to get what we want.
A person who is serenely decided, know that the effort and excellence, will eventually receive their reward, and says to him/herself:
- If you do not win this time will be the next or the next.
How to avoid despair when you are in despair? What specifically do? It's a matter of attitude.
Do not fall into the trap of saying: "I need this thing to be happy"
Do everything in your power to make happen, and then you say: "I do not need such a thing to be happy."
Forget it and you attending to other matters.
Most of the time, the expected result will ensue.
Both the physical plane and mental for us , we are governed by natural laws. But nature does not understand the desperation!
Nature seeks balance and can not be desperate and balanced at the same time. Life does not have to be a constant struggle.
Leave running things.
This is not indifference, it does not endeavor to force events.
And while you say, "I know nothing about natural laws and how they work," need not understand the law of gravity.
The challenge is knowing how to use the principles, no one demands that we understand them.
... If you want something...you must give it!
You get more of what you want, giving a little of what you have.
If our attachment prevents good things flow into your life, If the attachment prevents good things flow into your life, the opposite would be the detachment,
to the point of giving something we value most.
What you give will be returned.
The balance our checkbook is not the measure of our prosperity.
Abundance is the movement of goods for our lives.
Prosperity is a flow, is to give and receive.
Give without expecting that will correspond,
otherwise we would be attached to a result ..... and as we know, the greater the desire, less ,you get.
Should we enjoy material possessions? Naturally!
But you must try to you owning to them, and that they do not take possession of you.
The chains of love .....
Mary desperately seeking a man who wants it. Is it supposed to go find him? The chances are slim.
First, his desperation drives away the suitors.
Second, it harms their sympathy.
- I need you, I can not live without you!
That's not love, it's ferocious appetite. You can not desperately need a person and loving at the same time. In addition, if literal truth you can not live without a certain person, you'd be a pathological case, and who want to carry such a problem?
Loving a person means leave it free to be who she chooses.
To love is to let part of your life if she so chooses. Again we are talking about a balance.
For to have something or someone, let it loose.
